The Cigar Shop
Over the last several months, I have been asked about my cigar smoking and why I enjoy it. It's been everything from special hashtags on social media to practical joking in conversation. I thought I'd write something short and concise to share my thoughts about cigars. And for the record, I know it may not be for everyone, but it's definitely one of my favorite hobbies.
Also, I wish to share that I don't smoke as often as many think I do. Many of the pictures I've posted have been cigars that I just received in the mail for review or that I've bought- in essence, smokes that I'll eventually get to. Nonetheless, I have been smoking for several years now and I have a passion for cigars. They're my jam. I don't like cigarettes, weed was never an interest, and I don't believe vaping is authentic (another conversation for another time).
The Experience
Cigar smoking brings several elements. We'll start with the overall experience. It's an art because each cigar has been constructed, rolled, and checked by hand which means they're made with intention. When you decide to toast (light) a cigar it's because you have time. It's not a quick smoke, it shouldn't be.
When you smoke a cigar you're forced to slow down and take hold of what's been going on. This is the part where you simply reflect on the day or week, enjoy a good read or engage in work while in a great atmosphere, or engage in fruitful conversation with friends. The bottom line is that you have time; something people are quick to forget about and are constantly searching for.
For a moment, the fast paced culture we're accustomed to doesn't exist.
The great philosopher, Ferris Bueller said it best in Ferris Bueller's Day Off (1986):
"Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in awhile, you could miss it."
Is it Missional?
Remember, in part, this is about preference so if cigar smoking isn't your things I completely respect that. Where I want to encourage and exhort you is in asking what are you doing to engage your culture? Your city?
Cigar smoking is incredibly missional because, as mentioned before, time slows down for a moment and people who enjoy cigar smoking at a B&M ("Brick and Mortar" or lounge) appreciate conversation. The cigars are what brings them together and serves as neutral ground so it's one of the best places I have found to talk about Jesus and to share His gospel with those who don't know Him. In my experience, when sharing the gospel at our local cigar lounge, tolerance is replaced with sincere respect and handshakes.
I am well known at the cigar lounge that's in town and love talking with several of the men who visit frequently. The culture of cigar smoking is unique and not as popular as many think, but it is alive and well. It's authentic.
So, the next time you find yourself (if you ever do) with an hour or two to spare and the smell of rich tobacco is one that you enjoy, then I encourage you to stay in at your local shop and spend your time wisely, incline your ear, and turn the cell phone off.